Let go of the things you cannot control. But after these talks he clams up so tightly. Thinking of you Ruby. And the wife may wonder if anything was real about the partner she thought she knew so well. New year he begged me to go with him to his parents for family get together.
I confronted him, he denied, told me I hacked account and any other excuse.
How helping my husband discover he’s gay helped me let go
The length of their marriages range from a few years to 20 and 30 years together. One Saturday morning last fall, my marriage ended before I even had a chance to finish my coffee. Some of the gay men I have met in this situation, I feel, confuse love with gratitude. Previous Post By Allan. He now refuses to go out with friends, so that I know he is being faithful. But I also have to be pragmatic and have been socializing and living my own way,instead of being tied to the wishes and expectations of a spouse. The wife has not been inadequate in any way and likely the gay husband married her because he truly cared about her.
Or maybe he had little to no desire all along? Thank you both Ruby. It is your time now. Having goals and plans is very important even when our worlds have been tossed upside down. I would like it if you came back and talked some more. I misunderstood his time in processing the situation for denial which meant i was becoming worried that he hadnt quite understood what i was saying and that this would be swept under the carpet and we'd be back to square 1.